Sunday, July 17, 2011

MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS

The eternal struggle and strife of the different sexes trying to understand each other.  An eternal source of pain and despair.  An eternal challenge.

It’s late and I’m not the frame of mind to expound on the wisdom of male/female relationships—what good they do and what evil they cause.

Choosing a mate is a very deep psychological issue having much to do with how we have attached to our primary care-givers early in life--and how those relationships affect us for better or worse in our later relationships with others, especially those of the opposite sex.  The kind of attachment and resultant emotions seem to curse some of us or at least haunt us for the rest of our lives, in one way or another.

Attachment:  something highly worth researching!  It sets you up for a lifetime of misery and despair, or joy and gladness.

What do you know about attachment and its importance in peoples' relationships?

I may write about it one day, but not now.  Now I just want to express my frustration that some innocent children are victims of mistakes made by generations of dysfunctional care-takers.

Got answers?  Got solutions? Have at it!!!


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